The Great, Good, and *gasp* Lonely

Previously I had mentioned that I am extremely content with my status as single mom, and off the dating market by choice. Here is the article about my desire to not share my life right now.

That said, even though I am superhuman as a single mom, the human part does creep out at times, and I do get lonely. We are social beings. Companionship and intimacy are important.

The following are the most common occurrences when the song, “All by myself, don’t want to be all by myself…” kicks in. Continue reading

Advertisements

But I Don’t Wanna Share…

Sharing is caring. We all know that. On the other side of the coin we are also told that boundaries are important. Great, another aspect in our life to find balance…

I recently “fired” myself from dating. As in, I took myself off the market even though a significant other is still absent from my life. Without over sharing, I had a short relationship that ended due to the fact that my boundaries were not respected. I’m a big believer that without respect and trust, a potential relationship is doomed. Continue reading